Growth Group: The Healer's Heart~The Inner Life of massage therapists
As a massage therapist, you nourish your clients with your presence and the gift of your touch. But are you feeling nourished?
If not, you may experience the following?:
◈Feel chronically stuck--frustrated and dissatisfied in some area of your life—career, relationships, money, health, or (you fill in the blank).
◈Drift through life without ever giving time and attention to your dreams and
passions, the things that light you up.
◈Often compare yourself to others and feel ‘less than’.
◈Negate your own needs for the benefit of others.
◈Curse and belittle yourself on a regular basis.
◈Find yourself stuck in the past, rehashing & recycling mistakes that you’ve made, and wrongs done to you.
If you are ready to create that life, here is your opportunity. Join me in an 8-week Growth & Empowerment Group exclusively for massage therapists called "The Healer's Heart: The Inner Life of Massage Therapists". This group is a safe place for you to explore your inner life and practice Quantum Kindness with other like-minded souls, so that you can lighten your load, fill your own well, and create a happier more productive life.
The essence and intent of this group is similar to the 1-1 Quantum Kindness® Multi-Dimensional Healing that I offer (for more info on this sacred 1-1 work, click here). The difference is that The Healer’s Heart calls upon the power of the group and is structured just for massage therapists.
This Group is Not About Massage
To be clear, this is not a group about the world of massage. We may certainly bring massage into the conversation, but this is not a career-only group. It is for people who want to live happier more productive lives; who just happen to also be MTs.
Why Massage Therapists?
Because massage therapists are my tribe and massage is my profession.
Through my 26 years as an MT and 19 years as a teacher of MT students, I have come to have a deep understanding of the psyche of an MT. I have a sense of where we shine and how and why we struggle, and I want to be of service to my tribe. I want to make a difference. I want all massage therapists everywhere to live happy, prosperous, productive lives, doing their best work. I want MTs to leave the profession when they choose, not because they are forced out by burn out.
Also, I hold the massage profession deeply in my heart. I take it very seriously. We are not simply rub-down artists, we are healthcare providers. Healers. We change lives, and in order to do that, we must first change our own lives. If you want to be the very best massage therapist/healer that you can be, you must go within and do your own healing work. Only then, will you be able to stand before your vulnerable clients with your own vulnerability and authentically participate in their healing.
I say to my students on the very first day of class, "I have a responsibility, to you and to everyone that you will touch, to help you be the best possible massage therapist that you can be. And that requires that you do your own healing work."
I say that to you now.
And that is why I created this group~so that you can do your own healing, be a better healer, and live a happier, more prosperous and productive life!
What is Quantum Kindness ®?
Quantum Kindness® is a grand tapestry of divine consciousness that holds all things with unconditional kindness, including human frailty and suffering. It is at the core of our essential nature. As humans, we cannot grasp this level of kindness with our minds alone, but we can feel it in our bodies and allow it to touch our lives. And in so doing, we are healed and transformed.
How This Group Can Benefit You, the MT
On a practical level, this group can help you:
•Gain clarity about the circumstances of your life~why things are the way that they are.
•Take responsibility for those circumstances and begin to change them. This may seem daunting, but it's actually freeing when done with Quantum Kindness.
•Get unstuck, as you gain new perspectives on old habits & patterns, the things that hold you back.
•Create a vision for life that you would love.
•Implement structure, accountability, and an inspired action plan to realize your vision.
•Generate more money, as you open to the flow of your authentic gifts and share them with the world.
•Improve your relationships, as you create a deeper connection with yourself.
•Find your tribe, a safe and sacred community of like-minded souls.
•Increase your level of heartfelt joy & inner peace, as you learn to accept your suffering.
•Heal physical ailments, as your natural flow of energy is restored.
•Find your power! You are more powerful than you could possibly imagine. See the quote from Marianne Williamson at the bottom of this page.
In this group, you will have the opportunity to see yourself and your “problems” in a new light; to approach them with kindness, perhaps for the first time. And to feel the support of other like-minded souls who also struggle in their own way. The goal of all of this? To live a happier, more prosperous and productive life! It is sacred work, and it would be my honor to have you join us in the next cohort. Keep reading for details.The Structure of This Group
This Growth & Empowerment Group will explore the following four stages of transformation. What I call the Transformation Spiral.
Stage #1: Waking up (Start Where You Are)
You have become aware of some longing or discontent in your life. You get a tap on your shoulder, a tightness in your gut, a nudge in your heart—or, if you’re like me, a 2x4 on the side of your head! This is the part of you calling you to awaken and grow. Sometimes you know what growth looks like: A career change, a more fulfilling relationship with your spouse or your child, more money, greater health, honoring your creativity, a greater sense of inner peace. And sometimes you simply feel a nagging desire for something else in life, even if you don’t yet know what that ‘something’ is.
In stage 1, we’ll explore that 'something'. We will take an honest look at where you are now, and dive into the longings, desires, thoughts, feelings, programming, and patterns that got you to this moment in your life. We will honor your past, your pain, and your brilliance~all to uncover that 'something' that is calling to you. And we will do all of this with Quantum Kindness®.
Stage #2: New Horizons: Imagine Your Future
In stage #2, we image a future where growth is actually in your life. I lead you through a step-by-step process for crafting a vision for a life that lights you up and fills you with joy. The first step in the process? Asking yourself, "What would I love in the area of (fill in the blank)?" Not, "What do I think is realistic?" or "I'd like this but how would I ever afford it?" Simply, "What would I love ?" Try it right now. Sit quietly, take a deep breath, and ask yourself, "In the area of (fill in the blank), what would I love?" See what comes. Once you craft a vision, we create a practical action plan for bringing that vision into your reality. This process alone is magical and can transform your life!
Stage #3: Embracing the Great Divide
This stage bridges the gap from where you are now in your frustration & discontent, to where you want to be—your vision for a life that fills you with a sense of aliveness! This is often the most challenging step because it shines a light on the places that are calling for healing. This is where the Quantum Kindness© process really shines. I will elaborate a bit more on this stage, as it is the stage that most people try to skip. Understandable, as this stage can get uncomfortable!
Because, as strong as your longing for growth may be, there are equally strong parts of you resisting growth. You may find yourself thinking, "Why can't I stop procrastinating and just do it?" Or "Why do I keep doing (the same unhelpful thing) over and over? What’s wrong with me?!"
The truth is, there's nothing wrong with you. It's not weakness or a lack of will power.
It may be that this resistance emanates from the fearful parts of your mind; parts that long for safety and rescue. They likely originated in your past (and may even be part of a generational pattern-dysfunctions that began in past generations and are now part of your life); they remain hidden in the shadows of your subconscious mind and in the tissues of your body.
The truth is that you have needed these parts; they are part of your humanity, and they have helped you in life. I know it's hard to believe, but put it to the test right now. Take 3 deep breaths and, just for a moment, decide to withhold self-judgment and be open, honest, and curious. Now ask yourself, "How has this (resistance, procrastination, etc.) helped me in life?" And see what comes to you. You may be surprised.
The thing is, these parts use lots of your life energy to do their job, whatever it may be. And you use lots of your life energy fighting & resisting these parts of yourself. This is energy that you could be using to create the life of your dreams.
That happens when these parts are finally seen, heard, understood, and accepted without judgment. With Quantum Kindness. Then they can re-unite with the rest of you and add their considerable energy to the business of growth and the creation of a happier, more prosperous and productive life.
Take one more moment now and ask yourself: “What it would be like to stop fighting myself? To simply let myself be?” For me, the feeling of relief & relaxation is profound!
This is the stage where you really benefit from support and companions, as it requires others to gently point out your blind spots, walk alongside you in uncomfortable places, and encourage you to go deeper than you would on your own. (And, in truth, if you could do it on your own, you probably would have done it by now.)
This stage calls for courage, honesty, self-exploration, and Quantum Kindness. And as much as you might want to, you cannot skip this uncomfortable stage! Without it, you will continue on the treadmill of your life, as your soul longs for growth and your humanity holds you back.
As healer, coach, and teacher, I will be right by your side throughout this, and every, stage, as will the other members in your cohort.
Stage #4: Living Your Vision Everyday—Integration, Accountability, and Sustainability
In stage #2, we created a practical action plan to help you bring your vision into your reality. In stage #4, we refine that plan. We include what you have learned about yourself in stage #3 to design activities and practices that you can use to keep yourself on track. We call forth inspired action, gut-level commitment, and gentle accountability to move you in the direction of your dreams.
This is a journey of transformation which combines inner exploration and outer action to help you create a fuller, richer, deeper, human experience. In short, a happier more productive life. And all of this is undertaken with great kindness. Quantum Kindness.
Winding Around The Transformation Spiral
We humans are not merely linear beings. On the Transformation Spiral we move up and down, in and out, backward and forward throughout our days.
This means that, in our group we will move through the different stages of transformation as the moment dictates. Sometimes we will be in stage #2, then move back to stage #1, then jump to stage #4. Sometimes, we will spend more time in stage #3. And onward we go. It’s an organic process like an unfolding flower. This process is not always easy, but the payoff can be huge, as it offers the possibility of lasting transformation. The life that is calling to you. The life you truly want.
What Actually Happens In This Group?
This group is not just about sitting and talking. This is a highly experiential group with a specific intent: To empower you to create a happier more prosperous & productive life. Drawing from my 45 years as a healer and a seeker of my own healing, I have created the Quantum Kindness® process, which utilizes the following practices to stimulate healing, dreaming, and creating a life that you love!
❤Self-inquiry—I will facilitate deep group discussion and ask powerful questions to bring us to new levels of awareness.
❤Checking in with your body. Our bodies are powerful guidance systems for our lives. Our bodies are where our lives happen, right here, right now! Learning to listen to your body is an essential and very powerful tool. Thus, throughout our meetings, I will regularly ask us to notice what we are feeling in our bodies.
❤Creating Your Life Vision. This is a step-by-step practice grounded in ‘reality’, starting with the question, "What would you love in your life right now?" As a group, we will work together to refine our visions.
❤Exploring the shadow—the parts of us that we hide, deny or resist. Especially the root cause of why we ignore our needs for the benefit of others, what I have come to know as a desire to rescue others. This includes generational patterns in our family lines. There is great power hidden in the shadow.
❤Breathing with intention.
❤Quantum Jumping: Going backward in time to bless our past selves and/or forward in time to learn from our future selves.
❤Using sacred geometry to activate our light bodies (spiritual aspects of us), balance our chakras (energy centers in the body), and raise our vibration.
❤Leading us through meditations and activities to explore other aspects of our multi-dimensional life.
❤Meeting us all with kindness.
❤Gently challenging us inward and forward.
❤Respecting each person as the highest authority of their life.
Bring to mind a time when you have come together in harmony with another person or group toward a shared goal. Energy is high, creativity flows, and everyone feels supported. Ideas and inspiration may come spontaneously out of nowhere.
That 'nowhere' arises from the power of the group. This is a perfect example of the idea that "the whole is more than the sum of its parts." Simply put, when two or more people come together in harmony, focus, and a shared intention, magic is not only possible—it is inevitable!
This Growth & Empowerment Group is a gathering of people seeking support and change, just as you are. With me as experienced guide, this community of massage therapists will tap into Group Magic to find clarity, camaraderie, support, and inspiration. You will discover new ways of seeing yourself and all aspects of your life. You will find the power that already lives within you. The kindness and courage to change, not just your career but every aspect of your life.
And, on a purely practical level, a group is more affordable than 1-1 healing & coaching.
Why I Am Equipped to Lead This Group
I have traveled the long and winding path of personal growth & transformation for many decades, and I know how lonely, confusing, and painful it can be. I deeply understand the frustration that arises when some parts of us long to grow while other parts of us demand to stay the same. This can be maddening and lead to extreme self-judgment. At times, I have truly been my own worst enemy, which has been the greatest pain of all.
And ignoring my own needs for the benefit of others; this rescue energy; has been a hallmark of my life. I have come to understand that this need arises out a profound desire to be rescued myself.
The answer to all of this is radical, extreme Quantum Kindness©. Kindness for all parts of us—for the small parts which hide in fear; and the bigger parts which burn bright with possibility.
Nitty Gritty Details
The Healer's Heart meets on 8 Tuesdays from 1:00 pm until 2:30 pm central time. The first meeting is Tuesday, July 9th and the last meeting will be August 27th. We will meet weekly on Zoom.
This Group is a Beta Offering
What does “beta offering” mean? Well, I’ve been teaching, healing, and coaching for many years but I've never led this particular group before. I have a sense that it will be powerful, but since I haven't done it before, this first group will be an exchange.
This means that I will give you everything that I have—my presence, my practices, my experience, and my kindness; and in exchange, you give me feedback. Before, during, and after the group, I will ask you to share with me what is working and what could be improved. And I will use your feedback to improve future cohorts.
And because it is a Beta Offering, it means that the $497 investment to join this July 2024 cohort will be much lower than it will be in the future.
Here's What You Get For Your Investment
This group is an investment, not only in your future, but in your present level of well being. Here is what you receive for $497:
- 8 group meetings.
- 1 private Quantum Kindness® Multi-Dimensional Healing session with me.
- Private group Facebook page for community connection.
- An opportunity to change your life.
At this point, you may be thinking to yourself, “Yes, I am stuck and frustrated. And I do need some help to put myself into the center of my own life so that I can create the life that I really want.”
And you may be asking yourself, “Is this the right group for me?”
Like transformation itself, this group is not for the faint of heart. To join and succeed, you must have:
- Courage
- Curiosity
- Self-awareness
- Self-responsibility
- A willingness to do deep inner work
Follow Your Inkling
If this Growth & Empowerment Group speaks to you; if something inside of you is intrigued; then follow that inkling and reach out to me. You are welcome to email me (click here) with questions, but you and I must have a face-to-face conversation over Zoom before you join this group so that we can determine if it is a good fit for you at this time. Click here to schedule a complimentary 30-minute Discovery Session with me and let's talk.
Whether you join me or not, please know this: Transformation is 100% possible in every moment, and you absolutely do not have to live out your days in frustration and discontent. You can learn to tend to your own needs so that you can create the life that your heart & soul are calling for.
A Word About Your Power
You are more powerful than you think you are. Yes, you. Take a moment. Take a deep breath. Feel the power and energy that rises in you just from one breath. Now, consider this quote from Marianne Williamson's book "A Return To Love":
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?"
It's time for you to show up and be brilliant. The world needs you. You need you. This growth & empowerment group can help.